Considering Transferring
A question sometimes faced during the first or second year is whether
to transfer to another college or university. Student may express feelings
such as: “I’ve never really been happy here;” “I
just don’t seem to fit in;” “These are not my kind
of people”. A change in geography will not necessarily resolve
these feelings. The “grass is greener” illusion is common
to all of us. Once they settle into a routine and have had sufficient
time to develop meaningful friendships, their attitude and outlook often
improve. On the other hand, campus environments do differ. It is possible
that a student may function better in another college environment. Some
students investigate other schools but don’t ultimately leave
their present one.
There are three reasons why it is preferable to complete a full year
of study before transferring. First, a transfer to another college is
easier on a completed year basis. Second, a full year will allow the
student time to solidify feelings and to identify elements of satisfaction
and dissatisfaction so that other college environments can be evaluated
more accurately. Third, if a student is assured that you are willing
to consider transferring as a possibility, feelings of desperation will
be relieved, present circumstances viewed more objectively, and perhaps
they discover that the University of Richmond is a good choice after
all. If, after reflection, the student is more firm in the desire to
transfer, the reasons will probably be clearer. CAPS
psychologists often consult with students who are exploring the option
to transfer.
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